Friday, July 29, 2011

Coloring & Family photos

Most afternoons in our house it looks like a Crayola bomb went off. With crayons and markers everywhere. Here is a picture of the girls coloring together.

Then just a random together shot with their puddles(the yellow ducks in the picture).

Then the weekend before Kona's health declined our friend Jo came over to take a family shots. Here are a couple with our precious boy.

We are slowly adjusting to life without our boy. Little things like not having him to pick up after the girls meals, to not having him check on us through the day, or the fur balls when sweeping the floors, to just knowing he was here to protect us, to just seeing his cute face, to the daily walks, to just hanging with us, to him greeting us when we get home, are all definitely missed dearly. Emmi still will mention him randomly with cute things like she will say "we should get a new yellow dog so you and Daddy wont be sad anymore" to "I am going to draw a picture of Bubba". Thanks to everyone who reached out to check on us one way or another. But we are all doing pretty well adjusting to the new life.

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Our precious boy...

This is where you saw him most often in his last few days.
Friday morning he wanted to chill in the backyard near the playset his favorite place to dig.
He jumped up on the couch for one last time which he hadnt done in a week or so.
Here is Emmi giving him a hug good bye before she went to school. We told her she needed to say bye since Kona was going to heaven and wouldnt be there when she got home. Then when she got home she immediately asked where Kona was. We told her heaven. She then asked "well how did he get there? Did he float there?" So I just replied "yes kinda" and left it at that. Earlier today when we opened the freezer there were dog treats in there, Emmi said, "If Bubba is a good boy today he can have one. Oops that is right he isn't here anymore." Then later today when we came home from shopping she immediately came in saying "Bubba, Bubba we are home." Then just giggled a little bit. It will be interesting to watch how this impacts her through the glimpse of the eyes of a 3 year old.
We went on our last walk in the neighborhood.
Here is a picture that our sitter took of Moo and Kona a few weeks back. Sorry it is so small.

Yesterday we lost our best friend

In February of 2004, Taryn and I decided we wanted a dog. It was simple as to what we wanted. Pure bred, Yellow Lab. With the help of our friend Kristine Kelsey, who is involved with Rottweiler and Pit Bull rescue, we found a two year old, pure bred Yellow Lab in a shelter in Westfield NY. Due to heavy snow storms, his transport to us from the shelter needed to be cancelled and we had a decision. Either drive out and pick him up, or have him stay in the shelter until transport could be arranged, risking someone else would adopt him. Since he was exactly what we were looking for we decided to drive out and pick him up. The night before we were scheduled to make the 7hr journey to pick him up, Taryn's Grandfather passed away. We made the decision to still make the trip to pick him up even during this sad time. We left early that Saturday morning, staying over night in Buffalo NY, at extended family. The following morning we finished our trip. The shelter was nice enough to open on that Sunday for us. I remember the first time I saw him. 70lbs of yellow and white energy. They let him out in the backyard and he must have run full speed around for 10 minutes. His name at the time was Gus. He was a stray and they didn't really even know his name so that is what they called him. After about 20 minutes of Gus running around, jumping on us and him being generally spastic, we loaded him in the car and started the 7hr drive home. This is where our life journey with Kona really began. The entire ride he either slept or sat up to nudge us to pet him for a minute, then he would lie back down. During that drive back, we realized he was special. Quiet and loving. He just wanted to give love and receive love.

When we got home, we were in full gear with the services for Taryn's Grandfather. One day not even a week into having him we needed to leave him at home for a full day by himself and he had an accident in the house. I'll never forget his face when I came in. Tail wagging, his head and big brown floppy ears down, knowing he had an accident. There was no getting mad, no saying bad dog. Just letting him know that we realized he's new to our family and those things happen. Such a great boy.

So many stories with Kona. Another realization of him being a great dog was one of the first times having him in the woods with no leash. He saw a deer and took off chasing. All I thought was "Well, he didn't last long", fearing I'd never see him again. After about 20 minutes of waiting, I decided to go look for him. After not finding him I returned to where I last saw him. There was a man sitting on a bench and I asked if he'd seen a big Yellow Lab. He said "yeah, he just walked by here. He looked like he was looking for someone". Almost on cue, here comes Kona bolting up the trail, looking happier to see me than I was to see him. He was always great at that. He take off in the woods for 20-30 minutes at a time. Just had to wait and he'd always be right back. Sometimes bleeding from getting the big floppy ears or tongue caught on briar's or with porcupine quills stuck in his face. There was the time he came out of the woods with deer intestines (hunting area) in his mouth which he got lead poisoning from. Pancreantitis? Yeah, he got a case of that too.

He took our move to NC in stride. His hijinx continued. Catching cats and squirrels, chasing deer across soccer practices, flying through the woods on mountain bike rides. He loved it. We loved him for it.

He loved our girls. Always the protector of not only them but Taryn. He would always stand between the girls and unfamiliar people. If they were not home, he would always be looking for them. That's who he was. Our big Yellow Lab protector. And he was so good with them. They would pull his ears, his tail, crawl all over him, poke him in the eyes, you name it.

Three weeks ago Kona was diagnosed with cancer. It had progressed to the point where treatment was moot. He had pretty much been himself up until a few days ago. He didn't want to walk, wouldn't eat, and you could look in his face and he wasn't happy. Yesterday, we put him to sleep.

He is going to be so dearly missed. He taught us so many things. Most importantly, he taught us how to be parents.

We love and miss you Bubba.....

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Discovery Place Kids

The kids and I head to DPK with the Perry's. Moo had so much fun getting soaked in the water table. Emmi just had a blast running around checking it all out. Every time we go we say we have to make it happen more since it is good times by all.
Checking out the puppies at the Vet:
Moo playing in the water with her apron on:
Moo picking out flowers at the grocery store:
Emmi checking out at the grocery store:
Emmi driving the firetruck:
Emmi on stage:

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Barbells for Boobs

Jacob and I did a team CrossFit workout to raise money for breast cancer. Here are some pics that our neighbor took while we were working out. We did 2 workouts in a row. The first, Helen, started with both of us had to run 400m, I did 21 kettlebell swings, he did 12 pull ups which we repeated for 3 rounds.




Then Jacob did Grace which is a 135 lb clean and jerk. Unfortunately we only had one barbell to use so I couldn't lift his weight so it was all him all though we did stack the bar just in case he couldn't finish so we could strip it down to my weight. We completed in a time of 14:25.

Monday, July 11, 2011

Bath time to a new level...

Since we didn't go to our pool this weekend, although we did go to the Y pool, Jacob transformed our deck from a pool to bathtime with a twist. Here is Moo in the pool.
Then the girls together. Although I think Moo knows what is about to happen with the fear in her eyes.
Yes it happened a few times.
Then the bugs love Moo so she came in for her bath while Emmi had hers outside. The bubble bath stuff is all gone in this one, imagine that lol.
KONA: Is about the same. No new spot have appeared on his skin. Some changes we noticed is he doesn't eat his food as fast as he used to, meaning he will actually leave food in his bowl. We first thought it may be the fish oil but he seems to do it no matter what, usually picking out stuff he likes the most first. His energy seems to be about the same. Since we postponed our trip Emmi asks frequently when she is going to Memere's beach or will do my hair like Alana & Chloe or see others up north. So we have talked about why we are staying here although we are thinking maybe August we may be able to make the trip. Anyways, Emmi knows just how to grab my heart, this morning she said, "Bubba is going to heaven since Jesus is there to make him all better. Jesus needs a dog because he is sad." "When I was sick Jesus made me better."

Monday, July 4, 2011

Walker, well kinda.


Moo has finally taken some real steps in the past few days. These are without pushing her buggy or holding our hand. She will still drop down to the gimpy crawl so not her primary mode of transportation but pretty close to it. Here she was with a flashlight and helmet for safety sake.

KONA: He is doing great. Still the same puppy that everyone knows. The only thing we notice is that he is slow getting up or down but then once he is up he will chase stick or be ready for a walk. He also has returned to sleeping in our room which he hadn't done in a week or so. We feed him primarily whole cooked foods with Fish Oil. Looking into other herbal/homeopathy type supplements. He has to go to the vet tomorrow to get his remaining stitches out which he most likely will be depressed the rest of the day. At least that is what we have noticed lately.